My Side of the Fence

The danger isn't going too far. It's that we don't go far enough.

Nags Head Trip

It's not a great picture but there is no denying it's the beach.  It's Nags Head.  I've been coning here off and on since I was in diapers!  My family went every year from shortly after I was born to about the time I was 22.  It's been off and on since then.  It's funny, when we first started coming here the only place to buy much of anything was at RV Cahoons General store.  A longer trip would get you to Ben Franklin hardware store.  Travellers Inn had soft serve ice cream….Jeanettes Pier had tons of video games and that was about it.  Seriously, when Travellers closed they all but rolled up the sidewalks.

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Things have changed quite a bit since then.  Travellers Inn isn't called that anymore and they don't sell ice cream.  Jeanettes Pier is now some grand monument to piers in the Outer Banks – Gone are the video games.  

You know, Fishing Piers are an interesting microcosm of the unique place that are the Outer Banks.  When I was a kid, they all had "the house" at the beginning of the pier where they had bathrooms, sold tackle and maybe beer.  Some had video games.  Some had a narrow building on either side of the parking lot that served as a sort of motel.  Each room was only slightly larger than the beat up bed that each room housed.  Whether or not there was anything illicit going on in those little rooms I don't know but I do know that these were past times for the folks that lived close by the ocean.  All it cost was the fee to fish on the pier.  You could stay out there all day.

Oddly, the Piers were able to accommodate some mixing between locals and increasingly common vacationers – it's a cheap distraction, people like to fish and the Piers tossed in some video games as a cheap way to merchandise spare space.  Kids could play games if they got tired of fishing.  Jeanettes Pier went big with the video games.  There were just enough games (and girls) at Jeanettes that we would undertake the walk.  Maybe a mile and a half?  Couldn't wait to get there and burn up a pocket-full of quarters.

The Pier that I spent the most time on was the Outer Banks Pier.  There were 3 video games there back in the day.  The coolest of which was a submarine game.  The regulars really didn't care about the new people as long as they didn't interfere with the fishing.  Last week I stopped by this Pier and it's an interesting snapshot of how incremental change continues.  Yes, the same old "House" is at the beginning of the Pier.  The giant sliding screen door.  The tackle shop (I wonder if they ever actually sell any of those fishing poles?) is still there with a different Old Salt behind the counter.  However, on the ocean side of the Pier House they've built a bar!  It has 30 micro brews on draft.  It isn't the kind of place a jeans-with-untucked-dress-shirt-guy from Reston would be comfortable in but a guy from Manassas could knock one back with a local there. I'm glad to see that bit of evolution.

Indeed, most of the change is for the better – there new houses are nicer than the older houses and some great stores.  The Harris-Teeter there is among the best I've seen.  However, I do wish there was less traffic on the Beach road.  The most popular parts of the Outer Banks – from milepost 1 to about 18 are actually governed by three separate localities and they just can't seem to get the infrastructure thing together.  Some places have nice wide walking paths that are always packed and some have barely a shoulder with no sidewalk at all!  People would never tolerate that here…however, overall it's still a great family-friendly place to vacation.  

Sadly, cycling on the Outer banks is still very dangerous.  Kill Devil Hills and Kitty Hawk are just very dangerous places to cycle.  It isn't the out of town drivers as much as it is the locals and even the folks driving the local government vehicles.  They really don't give a crap about ped and bike traffic.  Recall I was almost killed by a trash truck in Kitty Hawk.  Being a local government guy (at the time), I emailed the local governments to pass along that information that a driver in their employ almost killed me and then left the scene.  The response from both Kitty Hawk and Nags Head reminded of the the movie "Jaws" when it becomes clear that there is a giant shark eating vacationers.  Recall the Mayor of Amity asked Dustin Hoffman if he "had a tooth" from the shark.  They couldn't get rid of me fast enough.  Had the same experience this morning.  A local public works truck passed me close enough I could have grabbed the mirror for a nice assist.  Dangerous to ride in the OBX….anyway

The other thing that has changed is that the houses have become Huge.  It's funny, back in the day, we stayed in a thousand square foot cracker box with no A/C.  I don't remember any hardships from those days – how hot it was when we went to bed or any of that.  I remember all the fun stuff my family did.  Fishing, renting little john boats with outboards, crabbing, sitting on the beach.  My Dad calling into work to solve some important problem from an actual phone booth (our cottages had no phones or tv).  He was in that thing for half an hour in the blazing sun and was drenched in sweat!  Nowadays if a house doesn't fit like 12 people, have wifi and a pool it isn't worth considering…:)  

And that's another thing (you kids get the hell off my lawn!!) what's with the pools at the beach?  At the beach?!?!  When I was a kid very few houses had pools but now many do.  A 12 year old me would have gotten a good belly laugh out of the notion that you needed a pool at the beach.  A 50 year old me still finds it curious but I'll admit it was nice….but I still make it to the beach just so I can say I did it…..

2 Comments

  1. "Recall the Mayor of Amity asked Dustin Hoffman if he "had a tooth" from the shark."

    Richard Dreyfuss….

    You went South for vacation, and I went North, to Boston. My daughter attended STEM Pathways to Leadership (AKA "Summa Camp for Wicked Smaht kids) at Olin College of Engineering. I've been back for brief visits during the last 20 years (mostly during the winter), but never had a lot of time to get out and about. Much hadn't changed. My old neighborhood looks the same, accept "Yuppies from Boston bought the houses and put some money into them), so it actually looked better than when I was a kid. The best Italian family restaurant in the world (IMHO) still makes the Veal Parm the way I like it, and the "Toasted Rav and a meatball" was a hit with my ladies. The roads are still whindy, and I was there in the second of two seasons: Road Construction. Fenway is right where it's always been, CITCO sign included. Didn't get to go candlepin bowling, but there's still plenty of lanes to go to. Fried clams are still awesome there.

    Some changes I noticed: The Charles River is clean enough to swim in, the Harbor waterfront looks fantastic with lots of new construction, parks and walks. China Town was CLEAN…and thankfully, the Combat Zone is pretty much gone.

    I also noticed the runners. People running everywhere, at all hours of the day. Not just jogging….haulin'A running. Saw a few cyclists…but they were dwarfed by the runners. Even on the hottest day (94), they were tearing up the sidewalks.

    Some things change. Some don't. 

     

  2. Konnarock when I was a kid, had no bathrooms (OK, no hot and cold running water either…just constant running water), we had a phone, antenna TV, only the trout stream and plenty of wildflowers to pick.  Put those wildflowers into colored water and watch them change colors. Pick blackberries, rinse them off add real cream…mmmm, mmmm.  Played a lot of cards and checkers.  Now we can facebook and google, fish in the pond or trout stream, zip lining, and a 17 mile dedicated bike path through the mountain. Our house now has 2 bathrooms, 4 bedrooms (sleeps 12), satellite, wifi, double decker porches to watch the stars at night and phone to call when FB PM isn't enough.  No cell phone service, though, which means no text messages either….how will the kids survive! 🙂

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