My Side of the Fence

The danger isn't going too far. It's that we don't go far enough.

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Grandma Handorf

My wife received a call last week from her brother.  He was in a hospital in Mechanicsville.  With Mom.  That was interesting.  Sarah's brother is from North Carolina.  What up? What's wrong?  Mom's got pneumonia in one lung.  Her white counts are up.  Can you come down?-

This is of a sudden.  Disconcerting.  Unexpected.  Mom has had some issues but is historically tough as nails.

Sure, Sister Sarah will come down…..probably not a big deal though.  We just have to work on that lung!

You know where this goes.

I end up holding Mom's hand, as she clings to life, while her children decide what to do.  I'm not throwing rocks.  It's just a thing that has to happen.  Someone has to do this job and I'm happy to do it.

Really, all I can think of…..sitting there in that moment….is how much kindness Sarah's mom has shown me along the way.  Man, I'm no angel.  Doing Andy ain't easy.  I'm a headstrong crabby bastard.

But she always gave me a pass.  She and her husband Howard.  Maybe not a pass but at least credit.  They tried to see some value in a much younger me.  Looking back, I'm sure they had to swallow hard and smile.  I hope that I'm worthy of that tradition.

So I'm sitting in the hospital with her kids, watching over her in her most dire of times.  Her children want to have a discussion about what the future looks like and I take a pass.  This isn't my territory man.  I can get you in the neighborhood but I can't make those decisions…..

I sit there…holding Sally's hand.  I've never done this before.  Sally isn't going to make it but I sit there and I'm compelled to talk to her.  To thank her for the generosity she's shown me over the years.  It's a strange thing to sit in a hospital room with a person who is, most likely never going to wake up again, and hold their hand and chat with them.  It's strange but man I have to tell you that it's among the most humane….or human things I've ever done.  Baby, you don't hold the hand or a person who is dying just for karma points.  You do it because you're vested.

I'm vested.  Sarah's mother Sally never turned her nose up at me.  I was too much of a frat boy or I was too difficult and/or headstrong where our direction was concerned but she was content to smile and let time pass.  Let time and tide take its' course…along with the confidence in her daughter to bring me to heel and make me a decent man.  Which she did.

At the end of the day Salma Nora Bushala was successful in raising a daughter that made me a better man and I'm thankful for her presence on this earth.  Godspeed Sally.  Godspeed.  May you and Howard enjoy each others company forever.

Whose job is it anyway?

So the House of Delegates has passed the Charter School bill.  This bill would enable an un-elected state board to have control over who can create charter schools.  This authority currently lies with the local school board.  I hear a lot of banging on about school choice and whatnot but I'm unsure this fixes anything.  To listen to many Delegates – includes some folks that represent us – this action is the solution. 

Let's have a quick quiz:  Guess how many charter school applications have been received in Manassas?  Give up?  It's zero.  Just a fact, not a conclusion.capitol

I think charter schools would be great but I have misgivings.  I don't think the public schools are perfect by any means.  But I worry….

I worry about the job that the government gave the public schools: educate all comers.  Very few other institutions have that kind of requirement.  Ponder on that for a minute.  It's not an abstract issue.  Think about trying to do that where you work.  Imagine your boss comes to you and says "Hey, Mark, I need you to teach this guy how to be a real estate agent…oh, btw, he only speaks Urdu.  Now, get after it.  He needs to take the test (in English) in 3 months."  Reckon what your odds of success are?  That's what our schools are faced with ever day.

I worry about intent and practical effect.  It's great to say that "the parents of every kid that comes to this school must volunteer 15 hours each semester to work in the school."  It's a great idea.  It inextricably links the parents with their childrens education and every scrap of research indicates that this is always beneficial.  It also eliminates most single-parent households.  Especially if they are low income.  So, yes, this school will perform well but is it fulfilling its mission?  Should we just skip mission for some schools?  If we do, aren't we just moving the problem around?

I worry about state overreach.  Just because something hasn't happened does not mean the state has to get involved.  "We only have 5 charter schools in Virginia and XXX place has 20" doesn't sound like much of a reason to me.  Honestly, I can just hear my mother: "If your friend Scott jumped off a cliff would you do it too?"  I'd also point out that the localities provide some 40% of the funding for the schools.  Seems like we should maintain some voice in that.  Local control is no bad thing.

I worry about taking the easy way out and maybe that's the bottom line.  Much like the column I wrote that complained about toll roads and stratifying public infrastructure – aren't our representatives at the local and state level taking the easy way on this issue?  In both cases are we not just outsourcing our problems?  Education is a great equalizer.  Our mandate as a society is to keep that institution healthy.  Does this Bill do that or are we just shirking the hard work that's necessary?  

In Manassas have we done the heavy lifting that's necessary?  I think that most would agree that the schools have embarked on a years-long turnaround that has begun to show results.  What has the City Government done to help?  Have they passed tough policies that might help?  Engaged the public?  Could the School Board go farther?  What have the Council and School Board done together?

 I think until we can answer all of those questions with real action then we haven't done all that we can do and Charter Schools are just a convenient way for local politicians to check a box.  I think the same thing at the State level.  It would be far more work – and far more politically dangerous – to actually undertake meaningful action so we're stuck with Charter schools and survival of the fittest….or wealthiest.

Look, I'm not opposed to infusing experimentation into the mix.  While Vice Mayor I worked cooperatively with the schools to do just this on several occasions while in office.  Manassas Next got our Science and Tech program started and began our involvement with the Tech Sector.  When I got out of office I started an organization to keep doing the same thing: applying private sector thinking to education problems.  Time will tell whether some of these nascent ideas bear fruit or not.  Deep in my entrepreneurs' heart, I know that the state government should always be in the business of helping localities innovate.  In schools or other core government functions.  Relentless innovation is an American trait and one we wear on our collective sleeves.  However, in this case shouldn't it be done with an eye towards enabling our public school systems to succeed instead of replacing them or diluting their mission?  Shouldn't we focus every ounce of our energy on that?  

Seems like it to me.

 

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